Learn to say "I Love YOU"

Part 1


"i love you"

saying these 3 magic words to anyone, to foreigners, to people you never saw or met before in this present incarnation - is a true proof of YOUR capability to LOVE - to actively LOVE - to GIVE LOVE - beyond the static and simple idea.

you have been studying the chapter "Dynamic Love vs static Love".

after a brief review of the present survey available online, i assume that most ( hopefully ALL ) of you have actively participated in that survey.

a large percentage are actively practicing Kriya Yoga and or God Yoga - yet approximately 50 % or the participants do NOT say "i love you" to others, foreigners spontaneously !

that is a VERY alarming distress signal of those "God seekers" - a proof why many of you are God-SEEKERS rather than God FINDERS !

the cause of such blockages within you and how to change such blockages is today's topic.

let's have a look at some preparatory steps:

to be able to SAY " i love you"

  1. YOU need to be WILLING to actually GIVE love to the potential recipient of love
  2. the potential recipient NEEDS to be OPEN - HERE and NOW to actually RECEIVE your love

the first point is YOUR sole responsibility. missing willingness to GIVE is a pure manifestation of stinginess in its absolute and hence spiritual form - a root cause of separation from GOD.

if YOU fail to be WILLING to GIVE love in ALL its forms and manifestations - ALL - here and now - then the only way for YOU left is a special path of karma leading YOU trough some severe situations causing emotional PAIN to YOU by suffering and experiencing the same behavior from OTHERS as you cause TO others.

such lessons may take as little as a few hours - but as long as a few MILLIONS of years - hundreds or more "incarnations" in a physical body or simply in astral and causal bodies.

the choice to change YOUR behavior always is YOURS and nothing but YOURS !

the second above point can be YOUR responsibility and within YOUR possibilities to change - or it may be the responsibility of the other part - the potential recipient of YOUR love.

a person simply can reject ANY love from YOU as a result of YOUR past experiences WITH that person - causing THAT person to reject YOUR love as a PUNISHMENT TO YOU. because the ONE whose love is rejected is PUNISHED by experiencing his love to be rejected.

a person may reject ONLY YOUR love and at the same time accept love from ALL or many others as a substitute of YOUR love to continue punishing YOU.

there is little YOU can do. because such behavior simple means that the potential recipient of YOUR love fails to FORGIVE YOU what you have done - and that might as well be many incarnations back - even millions of years back !!

however there always is a chance and possibility that YOU only YOU - can heal such a person and cause that person to ACCEPT your love.


by YOU refining YOUR love and turning YOUR love into pure divine love. that may require from YOU thousands of hours of intense spiritual work in hundreds or thousands of different situations in your present life. it may require YOU to work intensely for years or decades or an entire incarnation - HERE and NOW on this very planet.

it requires YOU to become REALLY spiritual - really spiritual means by truly and fully achieve God realization and oneness with God ! by being willing and ready to abandon all "war" against members of the "opposite" sex/gender and by truly LOVING and returning HOME to God.

in order to be able to SAY " i love you" BOTH potential parties NEED to truly be open for the true FLOW of love - LOVE is energy that NEEDS to be able to FREELY flow:

  • out of YOU = YOUR sole decision
  • INTO the recipient = the result of the OTHER's decision PLUS part of your influence as a result of YOUR improved LOVE as a result of YOUR true spiritual progress as a result of Kriya Yoga and applied love in all situations of life.

If ONE of these two are closed - it is difficult of sometimes impossible to "say" i love you to others. if THE other is blocking YOUR love - you still can say it - IF - your true love is stronger than his/her rejection !

for YOU to be able to "say" I love you - you need to have successfully practice repeatedly the bowing lesson given to YOU all in an earlier newsletter - if you lack motivation to learn bowing YOUR physical BODY and YOUR EGO to the feet of others including YOUR partner, you may want to re-read the  testimonial of Galina

EVERY single person NEEDS the certitude of truly being LOVED and YOU may be a substantial part of giving that proof - the proof of being lovable.

a person feeling NOT being lovable has serious problems of finding a reason for being LOVED by GOD. if YOU prove that YOU can love him/her - then it is much easier for anyone to accept God's love as well, because YOUR present LOVE here and now these very seconds is something EVERY physical human can FEEL and EXPERIENCE with all its senses. while God's love can only be experience AFTER having REMOVED or dissolved most or all of present blockages to CREATE and re-establish the awareness of being lovable within every person.

YOUR present PHYSICAL love in ALL possible manifestations is a mandatory and most efficient tool to HEAL the awareness of being lovable. YOUR willingness and capability to SAY and prove with YOUR daily deeds "I love you" to as many as possible is YOUR way to love God - here and now on earth and it is YOUR way of supporting God to re-establish ONENESS among all creation again and to re-become ONE single family in God. one day soon !

find out what type of lover YOU are - how often do you say YES or NO to giving or receiving LOVE - and start to think about possible changes and when and how to apply them in YOUR life.

spontaneously SAYING "I love you" to foreigners is ONE important part of GIVING love. if can NOT say " i love you" then you are among those who do NOT WANT to GIVE love at all - .... ! THEN it might be time for YOUR surrounding to change THEIR surrounding by living WITHOUT YOU.

If however you are sure that ALL your surrounding is rejecting YOUR love - then it might be time to

  • refine your love by becoming MORE spiritual
  • changing YOUR environment by changing your friends and contact persons AROUND YOU.


  • YOU have deserved to have a surrounding that is PERMANENTLY FULLY OPEN for YOUR true divine love in ALL its possible manifestations
  • ALL others have a divine right to be surrounded ONLY BY TRULY LOVING persons ready AND willing to GIVE all - again and again.

YOU may never directly be able to change other peoples decisions and will - except by being a perfect divine sample for all. BUT YOU can change your surrounding by moving INTO another area - to OTHER people with a different attitude and an open heart - to get what YOU disserve - LOVE - all the love YOU need and all the love and happiness God would LOVE YOU to experience - HERE and NOW and for ETERNITY !

YOU are ALWAYS able to change YOUR very own behavior and attitude - within seconds !

- all it takes is YOUR YES to LOVE and YOUR YES to GOD and YOUR YES to YOUR very own GOOD !

can YOU here and now say from the VERY depth of YOUR heart and soul

  • i say YES to God
  • i say YES to Love
  • i say YES to MY Good

SPEAK it out - first in private - JUST for you, again and again, then say it in the presence of OTHERS, your family, friends, anyone. Say it, write it - sing it again and again. 

Part 2


Beloved ones
Love has many forms of manifestations - hence there are MANY ways to "say" "i love you" to your beloved ones AND to entire creation ! hence YOU may have to learn MANY ways to EXPRESS YOUR LOVE - or more precise - you may have to learn to FREE all your God-given possibilities and potential AGAIN that you have buried and blocked underneath your ego !
Before you start to LEARN or FREE again your many ways of saying "I love you" to your beloved ones as well as to ALL creation, let's have a look at some very basic manifestations of ACTIVE love. love is perceived trough ALL of your senses - physical AND metaphysical - hence LOVE must be presented TO all these senses at the same time - forever and ever ! later on - after you have reached a higher state of spiritual development OUT of your physical prison, you will find many more ways to perceive and to manifest / present YOUR love to others.
while living in a physical body - you receive love trough
  1. your eyes - beauty of your surrounding
  2. your ears - sound of spoken word, songs, music, nature, ..
  3. your nose - fragrance / smell of body of your partner and family, flowers, nature, ...
  4. your tongue - taste of food, skin of partner, taste of breast milk, taste of semen, ...
  5. skin - feeling, sensation and emotions perceived when touching partner, friends, humans, animals, plants, flowers, minerals and metals, nature, ...
  6. ALL these very basic perceptions are made simultaneously through your physical senses PLUS appropriate CHAKRAS. each manifestation has a PHYSICAL and METAPHYSICAL ASPECT !
but of course there are ways beyond physical senses that YOU perceive while having a physical body, because most of your metaphysical perceptions are combined to your physical perceptions to a varying degree depending on YOUR present spiritual development !! - these are for example:
  • spiritual beauty - aura - we have an aura on different levels: astral aura, causal aura, atmic aura (the beauty of your soul), ... each of this aura has a particular stage of development depending on your previous incarnations AND karma !
  • spiritual telepathy - on different levels of your manifestations: astral/mental, causal, atmic, ...
  • ... the various parts of the aura are to a certain point proportional to your present physical being and manifestations, but MORE complex and MORE divers - much more !!!
some of these additional aspects of your spiritual development that are directly manifested trough your aura and can attract or reject others are:
  • degree of mercy YOU have developed
  • degree of divine love toward ALL you have developed
  • level of readiness to help and support ALL creation YOU have developed
  • readiness to serve and support ALL creation before serving YOUR individual needs - i.e. degree of YOUR selflessness !!
  • your true absolute faith in God
  • your love FOR God you are permanently manifesting
  • your harmony WITH God in ALL you do - i.e. your true and full understanding of God's NEEDS and your capability to fulfill YOUR share of HIS needs !
  • degree of intuitional perception of the NEEDS of your partner and all others surrounding you - including animal and plant life - including the NEEDS of all creation in harmony with God's intentions !
as you can see, all YOU need to perceive more aspects of love as well as to REFINE and FREE your various manifestations of divine love have already been given to YOU in the various chapters and lessons of the Cyberspace Ashram.
when practicing Kriya Yoga in its FULL and absolute precise form, including
  • helping others
  • sharing with others
  • applying grace and mercy to all in all situations
  • loving ALL your enemies
  • getting in peace with ALL
  • forgiving ALL under any circumstances
  • being able to physically BOW to ALL
  • ...

you will purify, uplift and BEAUTIFY YOUR AURA - hence "improve" the quality of YOUR love toward ALL !!
Kriya Yoga also cleans and opens your senses for metaphysical perception of your surroundings and increases YOUR capability to perceive,to "SEE" other manifestations of true absolute BEAUTY on all levels of your surrounding - OR - to make you aware of MISSING beauty and thus giving you a chance to make proper adjustments in your behavior toward your surrounding. for example by changing your contacts, by changing your location, by moving to an alternate location, by searching for a better suitable partner that supports your spiritual development and interests !
while God Yoga helps you to perceive the true infinite nature of God's love AND receive God's love for your healing to allow you to learn to reflect his love in your being in all aspects of your life.
with the increased spiritual development of THIS planet NOW these years, it will become more and more important for YOU to know how to "say" i love you to others in a more and more spiritual form and this certainly will require actions and modifications on YOUR part.